Alzheimer's Awareness

Many people’s lives have been touched by Alzheimer’s disease and most of us don’t know much about the disease or the impact it will have on our lives. It isn’t always easy to find the answers about Alzheimer’s disease, and at times you will feel frustrated and confused. Families and loved ones can come together and focus on what they did have instead of what they don’t have. ‘Celebrate’ today and its memories, and make each day the best, with no regrets.

Having a family member with Alzheimer’s disease is not a cause for shame or a reason to hide away. We still don’t know why someone gets Alzheimer’s disease or how to cure it. We do know that Alzheimer’s disease causes brain damage. Alzheimer’s changes how people think, talk and act and changes their inability to perform daily living skills, and their short and long term memory. People in middle and late stages of Alzheimer’s need full-time care.

Many times family and friends don’t notice the changes at first. We tend to make excuses for the small changes. Memory loss is not “just a part of getting old.” The first signs you may notice: misplaced items, starting something and forgetting to finish it, hard time keeping up with tasks typically done every day of adult life. Another clue may be if your loved one stops doing things they have always enjoyed because they may be worried that their friends will see they are not their normal self. This is a good time to see a doctor and find out what is going on. It takes a doctor with special training to find the cause of memory loss.

Let your loved one talk as much as possible try not to give answers during the talk with the doctor. The doctor may ask questions about:

• When the changes first started
• What changes you and your loved one have seen
• How both of you are coping with these changes

You will want to ask a lot of questions:

• What are some reasons for the changes noticed
• What medicine helps with memory loss
• Is there help to pay for the medicine
• Is it possible to still live at home
• Is driving still safe
• What services does the community have to help with care

Ask the doctor to talk plainly to you and write down notes to remember the information.

Alzheimer’s disease is a frightening diagnosis to face, and yet, many find relief in knowing exactly what they are dealing with.

Your local Alzheimer’s Association Chapter can help you through their 24-hour helpline:  call 800-272-3900, web site: www.alz.org.   

Lori Schuler is activity and marketing director for North Haven Homes